Sorry my misunderstanding and what you say is odd as any kilt made up in your peronal tartan would need to be a special weave. I know that I have recently been playing around with the Scotweb site and all special weaves come in at A$790.00. Probably best to check with the folk at Scotweb.

As for you waistcoat, it looks to be of a regency pattern and yes to get the full collar is hard. IF you google Regency Attire, there are a few sites that make what you are seeking but the pices are Xy

BTW welcome to Xmarks