Quote Originally Posted by Jay View Post
Upcoming nuptials for me next June. Second marriage for both of us.

As such only our children will be up there with us.

I'm kilted, of course. She and her 20y.o. Daughter are in white. My under 10 daughters also in white. I would like my daughters to have some tartan to match their Dad.

So, a fly plaid or a sash. What say you all?
In highland dance we call the fly plaid, a plaide (plaidie). If you google for Lilt dress, you'll see one of the accepted models of national dress for female dancers. If you weren't trying to go for the national dress look, I suggest a tartan waist sash with large bow at the back and maybe a tartan hair band.