Hello, Oliver... Glad you're able to join the group. Like you, I was self conscious at first. When I bought my first kilt, I would only wear it to family gatherings or highland events where I could blend in and feel comfortable. Poor kilt stayed in the closet 360 days a year. What a shame. Then I happened to stumble upon www.kiltmen.com, read the essays posted there, and subsequently made the decision to enjoy wearing it out more often informally. I started making reasons to wear it. Car needs gas, we're out of milk, etc. Like so many have posted, wearing it in public turned out to be a non-event. Of course I made sure I was ready for possible snide remarks with a clever quip or two of my own. If you're concerned about plunging into a public situation, my suggestion it you is to pick your audience. Start where you feel comfortable and gradually move outward. Most important is a show of confidence and pride. A few winks and smile from the girls will help there. 8)

blu