I have no problem with the free stylers , as most of them wear rather 'Manly' Skirts. That's fine with me as long as you don't try to disguise yourself as a female. If you do that, you are a crosee dresser.
As Far as I concern, Cross Dressing and Men in Skirts are two different thing.

Most of the Freestylers in Tom's Cafe are rather militant about their 'movement' and have too much 'Pin up' anger against the world. They just want to cross dress the world. It is fine to express your distaste of the world and how you are being treated. But Changes do not happen overnight. It takes time.

I haven't said my farewell to Tom's Cafe. I still like to pop in for a quick conversation and an expresso.