So, I found the lass of my dreams.... we have decided that we want to have a handfasting and a wedding when we buy our home. (She's so sensible that way!)

My question is this. Since I haven't been able to trace my lines further than the Depression to my ancestor's crossing, would it be wrong of me toadopt HER family's tartan, or to adopt something modern like TX Bluebonnet or an American tartan as my own?

I recognize that this is a deeply personal thing, and therefore am a little nervous about how to proceed.

My next question is on how to dress. Exactly HOW fancy should one dress for this?

I am grateful for any insight this forum can share with me...