I think there's a mix in human society, some cultures where men are reserved and not flashy, others where they are. A couple examples are arabic dancing, where the men stand at the edge and dance in a more reserved "supportive" style, while the women in the middle undulate and receive most of the attention.. then there is the african tribe where the men where make-up, preen, and have jumping contests to see who is the most agile.. and then there was 17th century France.. and sometimes I wonder if the effeminate male might be coming back into vogue.. so be careful how you wear your kilts. If in doubt, consult Bear or Graham or Bubba or one of the other non-"metrosexual" members of this forum..