so this is what we've come to? (Prince Charlie)

[BCAC]

Short answer, a wedding is the "Bride's Day!". The groom is merely an accessory. In my circle of friends most were told to 'dress up, show up and shut up'. The only things a groom needs remember is how to say is "Yes dear" and "I do".

Ask Father Bill, I bet he could tell some doozies.

Nope. Not for me. It's not only the bride's day. It's a wedding and a wedding is between two people, who both have a mind and an opinion and things that they want to share. So "dress up, show up and shut up" is maybe what it means for some people, but certainly not for me!