After 2 years of searching, I have found a professional dry cleaners that actually knows how to press a kilt! Kites Dry Cleaners (www.kitescleaners.com). They do charge "per pleat" but if you have the pleats basted down first, it's only about $10 to get it done.
I use the main store located at 3225 Alta Mere Drive, Fort Worth, TX.