Dear Brothers....

I have a problem, I have two daughters getting married this spring. Both insist on an informal wedding. No tuxedos, no Dress Blues, no Prince Charlies. But my kilts are welcome.

So what is the maximum niceness that I can dress without becoming formal?

I have three kilts (actually 12+) that may be nice enough, a Black Watch, a Dress Gordon and a Shadow Tartan. All three are wool heavyweight. I am associated with and blood kin to the Gordons and I served in Iraq alongside the Black Watch.

I greatly value you input and advice.

Sir Robert