When should a kilt NOT be worn?

[FossilHunter]

My question was less about official or even unofficial positions. That would make the situation easier. It has more to do with " I can, but should I", a question of general appropriateness.

I think Jock Scot has given the most concise advice. You know your congregation better than us and would have a better idea if it would be a distraction or not.

I wear my kilt to church as I would a suit, conservatively and (I hope) tastefully. I do this because it is my “Sunday best” and based on my knowledge of the congregation. If I had reason to suspect I was causing undue distraction or consternation, I would definitely take it into consideration.

For funerals and weddings I have opted to wear a suit instead, primarily because there will often be friends and relatives of the deceased/couple that do not know me and the aforementioned issues of distraction or consternation are more likely to arise.

I think it’s a good question to ask but ultimately it is one you will need to determine the correct answer to. Though perhaps others can help a little by sharing their experiences.

Also keep in mind that “look at me” syndrome is not isolated to kilt wearing. People are perfectly capable of making spectacles of themselves regardless of what they’re wearing.