I can see both sides of the argument. Since I'm pretty new to the kilt, I've only been subjected to one kilt lifting (fortunately I was not regimental). I turned around quick enough to completely embarrass the young lady who did it and actually had to calm her down.

As long as kilt wearing men are in the minority, which we all have to admit we most certainly are, we will be the center of attention and subject to speculation.

This subject has been talked to death on other posts, so I just say approach it calmly with a bit of humor. The cards are funny, but they're not something I would use.