Quote Originally Posted by Archangel
re: work and church

Church will surprise you, it did me. It has come up on other threads. Maybe they feel, because they are "brothers and sisters" they can be as loose as family. Be ready for that.
quoting myself, not too bad, eh. should point out that in my case this happened at a church social, still a surprise. Not sure if I would wear my kilt to the service itself. It would be a distraction to a number of people and saying "tough", in that context, goes against my beliefs. I'll think about that: comments?
The other thing is to weddings. I won't do that anymore. One time I think more photos were taken of me and the bride than the groom and the bride. I was the only kilt and formal. (They're divorced now.) The other time I declined and I'm glad I did. My good friend was going to wear his family's kilt for the first time and his parents didn't know. When he started down the aisle and his dad saw him, his dad started crying. I think if I had been wearing a kilt, it would have taken away the impact and that moment.