I will go ahead and say that this website is not endorsing the sending of money to anyone. Anyone who sends money to anyone else is sending it at their own risk. I am not saying that this certain situation is risky but anytime you send money to anyone you dont know personally it is risky.

That being said, Dread has made it clear that he doesnt want anyone to send him money. I say respect the man who is having a hard time and grant his wish for prayers and good thoughts.

Dread I suggest finding a civil service lawyer. There are plenty of pro bono lawyers in your area (not so much pro bono as they have a duty to offer a certain amount of time to pro bono causes) and it wouldn't be hard to look one up and get them to help you out. If you have the gumption to tell us about it then tell someone who can truly help the situation.