So sorry to hear of your recent loss. There may be some who consider it 'frivilous' to wear a kilt to a funeral - I have been so accused in the past, but I have to admit I was wearing my grey pinstripe kilt suit (with a black tie) at the time. Perhaps that was a little too unconventional for some people to handle.

However, I have also worn a plain black barathea kilt with a grey tweed Argyll jacket and black accessories to several funerals/cremations.

By coincidence, I am attending a neighbour's cremation tomorrow and will wear what I wore to the last one at which I was present: it is my Grey Thistle Dubh, pleated to the stripe, kilt from Geoffrey (Tailor) in Edinburgh :



This, I feel, is most appropriate for such an occasion.