Quote Originally Posted by GMan View Post
Family dynamics are indeed strange. As an individual, I say go Kilted, and be yourself.
It's the Be Yourself I'm trying to grasp. It was largely the squashing of that that led to my marriage falling apart. I was getting very confused because I couldn't quite Be Myself and also be what she thought I should be. Now I'm understanding Me a little better (thanks to my counsellor) and I want to Live a little as a result.

Wade