Look up Eton Jacket on the web. $38.00; Replace the buttons with 'silver' ones, and add three to each sleeve etc. Same with a 'cheap' vest, if you want one. A very nice look. If wearing a Fly Plaid, epaulets are not absolutely neccessary, but can be made by stitching a broad braid to each shoulder. (Groom with Fly Plaid, Attendants in jacket only).Congrats on the Nuptials; Cheer up - it's only for life......