I don't know how you'd do it. All I can tell you is that I remember the first day I wore it downtown, and I got hundreds of complements from strangers. Even from cars at 30mph (yes, complements at 30mph, not insults).

I have to say, it hasn't taken much to get me into a kilt since!

Maybe if you tell a friend that you'll show up kilted to something or other, then there is a sense of obligation?