I know this most likely has been asked somewhere before,but myself being a newbie,and a bit lazy to go search for it,I was wondering:

How would you handle a situation or what would you say if some said:

( Yeah,but its still a skirt) Had a jerk say this.

( Is that a Kilt?) Had someone ask this in a crowd at a super market.

( Hey dude,Love your costume) Idiot at the mall while we were Christmas shopping.

( Hey Bud,would you not mind wearing your kilt? I have some buddys coming and two are very homophobic ) Said by a former friend when he invited my wife and I to a cookout last labor day.

These are just a few,but they are well offset by all the positive comments over the past year or so.