*Disclaimer... kinda morbid*

I have a few elderly family members that may be kicking in the near future, and was comparing tartans for possible black tie and funeral use. Being a Stewart (oh, the joys of being generic!), below were the options I was considering:

Just found this one, think it may be my frontrunner as its pretty true to the sett:
http://kiltstore.net/tartan/Stewart-...e-Modern/69483

This was my original favourite, but i'm not sure how well the gray would show:
http://kiltstore.net/tartan/Stewart-...1-Modern/69451

This one is also an option, but is a distant third:
http://kiltstore.net/tartan/Stewart-...3-Modern/69453

This one is just a little too busy for my tastes:
http://kiltstore.net/tartan/Stewart-...y-Modern/69485

I wanted to gather feedback from everyone else on the matter... opinions? Other than being a hearless b*stard for even thinking about this?