On one hand, I understand Panache's point, but on the other hand I disagree. Of course you want to do you can to preserve family. Mine has been so broken and it would be nice if others had preserved that. I apparently have an uncle not too far from Fairbanks, but I'm not even sure of his name. On the other side though, I keep hearing the phrase "a kilt is just fabric"... but I disagree. A kilt isn't just fabric, it's a choice, a representation of me and who I am, and it is my comfort. When people put kilt wearers down like that, chalenging their masculinity and other comments intended to insult, they aren't talking about fabric. They are talking about the PERSON wearing the fabric. If I was in this situation, I wouldn't see it as just fabric, I'd see it as a lack of respect to me.