How to talk her into it?

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[edit] KtW: apologies, I thought that I was at the last page of the thread when I posted. Hope everything continues to go well. [/edit]

I think everyone already gave great advice, just remember it's your wedding too!

Although it's your wedding, too...this is truly the Brides Day.

Cynical hat ON:

Don't let anyone fool you: this is the Bride's Mom's Day. That may be where the potential problem lies.

Cynical hat OFF.

Of course, she might be more agreeable if you'd get busy and plight that troth! I'm not rushing you, mind... just sayin'.

Practice your version of Rex's speech (doffs non-cynical hat in a north-westerly direction), and hit her with it when she says "yes."