I can't say I would ever judge a person's sexuality by the clothes on their backs (unless it's printed right there on the t-shirt). I work with a lot of gays, lesbians and barsexuals (yes, barsexuals) and I've seen alot of shabbily dressed gay men and women.

I've worn my kilt to the club on several occasions and was never asked if I was gay - which is kinda funny because I've been flirted with by other men more for wearing nothing but jeans, a nice button down and a sports coat (supervisor "uniform"). Maybe it's because I don't look like some of the other more-business looking people in my position within the company or perhaps it's because I simply don't chase or flirt with women (mostly because my wife would frown upon that some). Or it could be the fact that our establishment isn't a gay nightclub.

And while I've been asked about my sexuality by some of my co-workers, subordinates and peers, I've NEVER been asked by my boss. In fact, I can't even imagine him asking me such a question. But I do know that if I was, he (or anyone else in my company) wouldn't have a problem with it.

Speaking of my boss and kilts, my softball team played his team this weekend in our kilts (pics coming soon) and he thought it was the best stunt ever. He absolutely loved it. So I think it's safe to say my boss (who also happens to be the president of our clubs) doesn't have any issue with a man in a kilt.