I posted another Topic about getting me started, but I have another side question that I need help with. The best way for me to explain my situation is with a real example:

Me: Hey Brother (actual brother), I bought a kilt today, but its a khaki kilt...basically like cargo pants...but a kilt
Brother: When are you going to wear that?
Me: Honestly, I was going to wear it tomorrow when you and I go to the mall with the families
Brother: I'm not going.
Me: Why?
Brother: I don't want to get accidentally flashed by you and see your privates!
Me: Ummm ok...I was gonna wear underwear...
Brother: Then why are you wearing a kilt if you aren't going regimental!!! What's the point!!!
Me: You just said you wouldn't go because I was wearing a kilt under the assumption of me not wearing underwear, now I tell you I am wearing underwear and you are upset that I am wearing a kilt while wearing underwear.
Brother: I just don't see the point.

This is the normal discourse that I have with the non-enlightened...any advice?
Not to get to personal....but the underwear question....am I wrong to be wearing underwear?