Having previously suffered similar myself on a different forum, due to a disgruntled person who felt that a remark I made disagreeing with something they'd said in a different post.

A more subtle, "let's give a moment for reflection and see if it needs to be removed before we put the size 12's on" is something that I personally think should be SOP for most (if not all) forums.

What most may see as humorous, risque or whatever, a minority may well take offense to. A chance to say "Whoops! Sorry! I didn't mean to cause offence" should be the right of the 'offender' to the 'offendee', seems only sensible.