Luna-

www.tartans.com has a pretty definitive list of tartans and family names. You will find out though that there is no absolute when it comes to choosing a tartan. There are different styles and sets wich don't really mean that much when it comes to modern use. If we still lived in 1700's Scotland we might wear our hunting tartan for hunting and our ancient tartan for funerals but these days you can pretty much pick which ever tartan you like the best. Show your husband some swatches from your Clan's list and let him choose whichever one he likes best. And if he doesnt like any of them, choose the one he likes form another Clan's tartan.

Anyone have a different opinion?

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