I'd say take a look around the forum, looking at photos posted by members like CMcG for example or Downunder Kilt would be a good place to look. Another place to start would be the 1 kilt 10 looks thread that Jamie and I did a while ago. Here is the link.
http://www.xmarksthescot.com/forum/f...-attire-46888/

I'd suggest looking at outfits 4-8 from both of us. Also there is a great thread on Prince Charles who wears Highlandwear often when in Scotland and does it well.

http://www.xmarksthescot.com/forum/f...-photos-49608/