Trust me, it gets easier and better. and if it doesn't, you can buy that big gun and shoot the sods (joking, joking).

I think the kilt is an excellent tool for helping overcome personal inhibitions and fears.

When I was 40 i took up scubadiving to help overcome a fear of deep blue water and whatever lurks below.

When I was 50 (it seems) I took up wearing a kilt to overcome much deeper concerns.

It works!