Etiquette was drilled into me. Appropriate decorum, manners, etc. I never just thought of these things as only for a Gentleman. Proper etiquette is something that seems to be continually eroded in society. Hat etiquette has certainly been ignored as well as appropriate table manners. Nothing so disappointing as seeing a stunningly beautiful bride shoveling food into her mouth while her elbows were firmly rooted to the table seemingly to guard her plate.