The Rules of the Gentleman

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While it may seem silly and "uncool" to the male youth of today, nothing is more attracted to a well brought-up woman than a well brought-up man. I hope to raise a very polite and kind young man and even though some girls may tease him, the women who will truly matter will be the ones who will cherish those qualities and vise versa.

I recommend How to Raise a Gentleman to young fathers and mothers. The fact is that once one is familiar with the "Gentleman's Rules" (for lack of a better name), they are not hard to follow, make a lot of sense, and are appalling in their absence.

Why would one not want to open the door for a lady? Or dress appropriately for the occassion? Or know the difference between courage and stupidity?

I am a Marine. I suppose I can kill with my hands, but I can also change a diaper, caress a woman, tie a bow tie, and sew on a button. A polite society is a pleasant society, and I choose the society of gentlemen. Few of us--is any--are to the manor born, but we all know how to act.

Meghan, I am glad to hear what you have to say on the subject. I think all young men--that is, under 40--should listen and heed your words.