It's a shame it took us this long to realize it was time. My mother is a psychotic, over involved zealot and my father in law is a destructive alcoholic.

Ugh.

Jock- we would love to move to the UK. My sister married a Scot and lives in Glasgow and it's just beautiful. I think the biggest obstacle is immigration/work visa nonsense. I'm not a MD PhD PhD PhD, Esq. unfortunately, and not independently wealthy.