Alright then, Alan. No sugar coating. I know you like straight talk so here goes. I would go dressed as closely to the main character's father as I could. He is a big strong guy and hosts a tyoe of competition from what I can tell. Go big. Throw heavy stuff. They didnt invite you to be a classical THCD gentleman. No, rather, they invited you to bring the spirit of the event to life. That means costume up and put on a good show!!