X Marks the Scot - An on-line community of kilt wearers.

   X Marks Partners - (Go to the Partners Dedicated Forums )
USA Kilts website Celtic Croft website Celtic Corner website Houston Kiltmakers

User Tag List

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 17
  1. #1
    Join Date
    5th January 12
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    22
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Proper Funeral Jacket.

    Im wondering if it would be proper to wear my dark charcoal tweed /w waist coat to funerals. While my Argyll has served me well I love the look of my tweed better.

    Thanks,
    Nylo

  2. #2
    Join Date
    7th February 11
    Location
    London, Canada
    Posts
    9,507
    Mentioned
    1 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)
    What do others wear in your neck of the woods?
    Rev'd Father Bill White: Mostly retired Parish Priest & former Elementary Headmaster. Lover of God, dogs, most people, joy, tradition, humour & clarity. Legion Padre, theologian, teacher, philosopher, linguist, encourager of hearts & souls & a firm believer in dignity, decency, & duty. A proud Canadian Sinclair.

  3. #3
    M. A. C. Newsome is offline
    INACTIVE

    Contributing Tartan Historian
    Join Date
    26th January 05
    Location
    Western NC
    Posts
    5,714
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)
    I think it would be just fine.

    The last funeral I attended kilted as for a friend who was both a Scottish ex-pat, as well as an active member of several local Scottish societies, so many of those attending the funeral were kilted in his honor.

    I felt my black Argyle with silver-toned buttons was a bit too formal and flamboyant for a day time funeral, so I wore this jacket, which is a very dark navy.

    http://newhousehighland.com/jackets.php

    Most of the other guests, however, were either in black Argyles, a few black Prince Charlies, and many in no jacket at all (even a couple of Jacobite shirts, which I thought looked fairly out of place). Point being, people wore what they had. Not many kilt wearers in my area have multiple kilt jackets. So I would have fit right in with my formal Argyle jacket, had I chosen to wear it. However, I felt more comfortable in a more conservative jacket, so I am glad I went with what I did.

    I imagine your charcoal tweed jacket would work very well, and would be my preference over a formal Argyle, as well.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    5th January 12
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    22
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)
    While I have not been to a lot of funerals you bring up a good point. I have always though most were dressed a bit casual for my taste. Maybe my tweed would be fine.

    Thanks,
    Nylo

  5. #5
    Join Date
    20th January 12
    Location
    The Northern Appalachian Highlands of Southern Ohio
    Posts
    1,632
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)
    Would you wear a cutaway coat if you were going in trousers? That is the equivalent to the black argyle with silver buttons. I have never heard of a funeral where full formal attire was the order of the day. IMHO, your tweed is much more appropriate.

  6. #6
    davidg is offline Oops, it seems this member needs to update their email address
    Join Date
    31st August 11
    Location
    West Lothian, Scotland
    Posts
    576
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)
    It is arguably more correct for you to wear the charcoal tweed and that would probably be the case in the Highlands. Here in the Lowlands we would more commonly see the black Argyll worn simply because that's what most people have, but it really is for more formal funerals

    Relax and don't worry about it. You will be properly dressed

  7. #7
    Join Date
    5th August 08
    Location
    Lancashire, England
    Posts
    4,345
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)
    Tweed, if it were me.

  8. #8
    Join Date
    1st August 11
    Location
    Romsey Nr Southampton UK
    Posts
    2,003
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)
    *** more for the charcoal tweed
    Friends stay in touch on FB simon Taylor-dando
    Best regards
    Simon

  9. #9
    Join Date
    19th July 11
    Location
    Inverurie & Qatar
    Posts
    171
    Mentioned
    0 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)
    A charcoal jacket, and waistcoat if you choose, is perfectly fine. For me I would always wear a plain black tie too but that might just be more a local Scottish thing or that I feel its correct for me.
    Last edited by pascs; 4th July 12 at 03:53 AM.

  10. #10
    Join Date
    18th October 09
    Location
    Orange County California
    Posts
    10,909
    Mentioned
    17 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)
    Quote Originally Posted by Nylo View Post
    Im wondering if it would be proper to wear my dark charcoal tweed /w waist coat to funerals. While my Argyll has served me well I love the look of my tweed better.
    I'm guessing that the Argyll jacket you're referring to is black. "Argyll" is a cut, or style, of jacket (the reference being to the so-called "Argyll cuffs") and Argyll jackets can be made out of Barathea in black, dark green, etc or in tweed in plain, herringbone, windowpane, etc in any colour such as Lovat Green, charcoal, or any other colour tweed is available in.

    The feeling of traditionalists in Scotland is that black jackets are not suitable for outdoor or daytime wear, and tweed is preferred, be it charcoal or Lovat or what have you. They think it odd that Americans nearly universally wear black tuxedos for outdoor and daytime weddings.

    Here's what I wore back in March to pipe at my Father-in-Law's funeral, a tweed Argyll (not sure what the colour might be called... looks like feldgrau to me)



    Here is a wedding with light-coloured tweed jackets (the Groom's an Argyll) ... most Americans nowadays would wear black



    Here are some Argyll jackets, any and all of which would be considered perfectly suitable for any daytime or outdoor funeral, wedding, or other event, in Scotland







    Last edited by OC Richard; 4th July 12 at 04:33 AM.
    Proud Mountaineer from the Highlands of West Virginia; son of the Revolution and Civil War; first Europeans on the Guyandotte

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

» Log in

User Name:

Password:

Not a member yet?
Register Now!
Powered by vBadvanced CMPS v4.2.0