I really like that first look. Very neat. If you're worried about your buckle being off center, then you are way too picky. At a party, after I dance a bugaloo, my belt buckle is often over one of my hips and my sporran somewhere around back.

I like everything in your second picture, too, with the possible exception of that tie. It goes better with the Christmas tree.

But, you can certainly ignore everything I wrote above, because your third picture proves you must be doing something right. You have a beautiful lady. Merry Christmas to you both.