Can you give us a little more detail,
What you want to do in your kilt.
What look are you going for? Do you want a more traditional look or are you going for a Utilikilt look?
What fabric are you planning on using?
What style of pleating?


In general 2" reveal to pleating is usually only for the Utilikilt look. In general, the wider the reveal to the pleats the less they will swish.
In general a 10" Sett is pretty large. I find 9" is my max with 6"-7" being average. It all depends on the fabric. The stiffer or thicker the fabric, the larger the Sett size you need to achieve the required swish.