Quote Originally Posted by TheOfficialBren View Post
I have a cousin who is adopted. He is as much a part of our family as any of the rest of us.
There is your answer! If at some point he wants to reattach to his biological family that would be entirely up to him, but I, IN NO WAY, would imply that it was an option that you are providing him any more than you would with a biological relative of yours. He is your family, and therefore your clan, unless he chooses to abandon you. " Yes son we are of Clan MacOnion, but if you want to go muddle around a bit and find another clan who you want to be a part of go right ahead" Would not be a conversation I would have with him.