Graham,

I was so sorry to hear of your family strife. Let me start by saying that I am relieved that everything with your daughters' physical health will be OK. Whew! I, like zeytoun, have had "issues" with depression in the past, but I am living proof that it can be overcome with the support of family, friends and professional help. Depression kinda sneeks up on you. You may not even notice it, just a little "down." It is like a snowball rolling down a hill - picking up momentum as it rolls along - until you find yourself thinking "it is too much! Life isn't worth living!" Then you think of ways to die, then when it will happen. It is pretty scary, looking back, how close I came. Thankfully, I received help before it was too late. Let your daughter know you love her and will support her, but it is not your fault! Attempted suicide is a call for help!! When completed, it is a permanent solution to a temproary problem. Show her you love her by seeing that she gets that help. You and your family have all our support. You and yours will be in my prayers.

Larry