Ham,

I find that I too am known as somewhat eccentric in my usual haunts (even before my kilted life), but when I go beyond those venues, not knowing (really not caring) what others may say I find basically the same sentiment expressed, that of a nod of approval or a smile.

Most of my apprehension comes from within me and my own thoughts, that I find my biggest barrier. Now that my hair is thinning and turning to a lighter shade of pigmentation, my individualness (is there such a word?) and non conformity are beginning to really shine brightly 8)