Hamish, Thankyou for your input, I dont think the length is the issue, Naomi says she thinks it could be a little longer. I told her that according to Hamish, our "kilt guru" that it is supposed to hang halfway down the knee, When I kneel on the floor it just touches the ground which i thought was correct.
Anyway she probably is just getting used to it as i havent worn it much. will persevere with it, get her used to seeing me in it etc. cheers mate Andrew