I'm with the other guys John Allen. We do seem to wear our hearts on our sleeves here, and for the most part I think people are sensitive when we understand the situation (of course we are al human and sometimes we don't understand the sensitivity of a situation until it's too late). And ther is the OT section that is members only. Maybe I don't understand what it is you're interested in or what your concerns are. Feel free to send me a private message if you need to.

Jamie