I agree with Graham. You can catch bees with Honey but none with Vinegar.

Heaping coals of fire upon their head" will either melt them to repentance or be their judgment. While I want to lash out sometimes, The snooty woman did not really cause me to react in this case because I am comfortable with my masculinity and who and what I am in Christ. It's her problem. A vicious response won;t win over anybody to the "Kilted Side" or for anything else".

Choosing a kind response is a manly thing to do.