Quote Originally Posted by akaussie
I've just been told by the other half that she just cant get used to me wearing a kilt. Has said that "she married a man not a girl!!!. Is there any hope.
Have been (until now) wearing the kilt as often as I could around the house, noiced some improvements in my health as far as the skin on my legs went. Oh well back to the closet for the kilt I guess, For a hile at least! Damn it i was enjoying the freedom too.Best to keep the peace. Cheers Andrew
Andrew don't give up yet.. If you have read my many posts on this subject you know what a struggle it was for my wife. To be sure you know your wife better then we do so consider that as you read on...

Listen pal.. this may be nothing more then a mood swing.. and if it is, it will keep swinging back and forth for a while. It will no doubt frustrate both of you for a good bit. You need to go out of your way to please her and re-assure her that you want no part of being like a woman in any way, that you want nothing to do with weaing womens clothes, that you just want the comfort. You can appeal to her love for you and yours for her. Man hang in there, you musn't hang it in the closet, that will only frustrate you and she will think you have finally gave up on it. . This won't go away Andrew, it will only be buried and will remain a source of contention until it is at last resolved one way or the other.

One of the things I did to get my wife used to it was find the baggiest pair of shorts that came past my knee that I could find. I found some made by DICKE that are black. they are so baggy my girls call them coulottes and they almost look like a skirt. I hate them but hey, it helped. She later told me that if she could get used to me wearing them she could get used to the kilt. And she knows that's why I did it. She is a great wife and now is fully supportive. I am telling you Andrew if my wife can turn around so can yours. It Takes time.. hang in there...

As Red Green would say. Were pulling for ya, we're all in this together....

Having said all that.. don't let this ruin your marriage, don't get in arguments over it. Tell her that you will wear it for the day the next time she is gone shopping. She won't be there, but she will know you are wearing it, but watch out if she has any lady friends she is talking to that might symphathize with her view. thats dangerous....

I will be praying for you and the sweet Mrs.

Hope I am not stepping into your life to deep Andrew, hope it helps a bit.

JohnAllen