I'm a little scared to add to this thread, but I'll take a chance....

I have a lot of gay customers. I have a lot of military and ex-military customers. What's the common thread? Balls. People who know themselves, know what they want, and are confident enough to get it. I think once you've faced up to telling your mom that you're gay, wearing a kilt pales by comparison! (I apologize in advance if there's any unintentional stereotyping in there.)

I recommend that when the "gay" question comes up, just tell them that you don't have to be gay to wear a kilt, you just have have as much balls as a gay man.

Enough of that! Regarding the "offshoring" question--is that what you really want? More American jobs going to Malasia (which, as near as I can tell, means "bad Asia")? Come on.

Peace,