My thinking is do what you feel will best honour the memory of your Grandma. It may well be that our links, or knowledge passed down has got a little hazy along the way, but if our intention is sound that is a great starting point.

I have two kilts in a Scott clan tartan - and wearing them feels right as I know my father’s family came from Scotland.

I wear a Clan Gordon tartan kilt to link to my grandmother. That feels good too.

My very best wishes on your quest.