I've attended two wake/funeral/memorial service events in the past month, and went to both "kilted". In fact, I went to the first night of the first wake in a suit, and the first thing the daughter of the deceased said was "You wore PANTS? Why? Will you wear the kilt tomorrow?" At the second "event", I sort of "felt out the issue" in advance, and the family was very much in favor of the idea.

I tend to go out of my way to dress "up" as much as possible...By that, I mean my tank, and a nice jacket/tie/etc. Somehow, I don't think a jacobite-type shirt would fly. But that's just my opinion.

Hal