philibeg, IMO, deliberately rude behavior deserves capital punishment if for no other reason than to clean up the gene pool. Now, as to kilt lifting, if a man did that to a woman here he'd be under arrest, tried and convicted for sexual assault at the very least. I'll accept kilt lifting as mere low humor when it works both ways and until then it needs to be slapped down hard. Personally, I don't accept it at all from anyone (other than my wife in private) for any reason and being under the influence of alcohol is no excuse. I don't see it as being prudish at all to defend oneself from the violation of ones privacy and person.