I used to hate ties too until I figured out that my shirt collars were
too tight.......duh!
If wearing a tie is uncomfortable, buy a shirt with a larger neck size
that feels fine buttoned up. Simple as that. Be very careful not to
shrink them when you wash them! I hang mine on a hanger to dry
or you could have them dry-cleaned of course.
Graham, wear whatever YOU want. Be yourself. Be comfortable. Nobody
will care and if they do, screw 'em. I wish I lived closer to where you'll
be. It would be lovely to meet you man.
Cheers,
Muddy
(Russ)