First of all welcome Izzy.

On kilts being universally recognized as a man's garment, I have to go to the women's skirt sections of Goth shops to find men's kilts. There on the same rack, between the micro-mini "kilt-like-skirts" that I buy for my daughter and the long "kilt-like-skirts" that I buy for my wife, are the men's kilts. This is after I explained the differance to the store's manager two weeks ago.