I'm new to the group and wearing the kilts.

[jfellrath]

is this common that women like to wear pants but don't like for men to wear kilts?

I wouldn't call it common but it does pop up now and then. Most people I've encountered who don't like the kilt have had issues of their own about being seen with someone wearing a kilt, and therefore can pretty much be ignored. Now, if that were your CURRENT wife, then you'd have some work to do, and I'd suggest reading this thread:

http://www.xmarksthescot.com/forum/s...ad.php?t=12710

Alan H's comments struck me as particularly poignant.

[Phil Wright]

Welcome from over the water!
Phil

[GMan]

FIREDADDY,

May I give you one great big WELCOME!

Glad that you are here.

[Big Paul]

Welcome to the addiction!

[Shay]

Welcome, and as an ex-wife myself, huh?

You should send her a sweet message saying something to the effect of: If your ring isn't on my finger, why would you care what else is on my body?"

*snerk*

[Jimmy Carbomb]

I'm finally getting around to welcoming all the new members to the site.

I may not be the best replier to your questions, but you are GUARANTEED some really good typos!:-D

As for the ex-wife...

The freedom of kilts is only exceeded by the freedom of losing excess dead weight.