Quote Originally Posted by Iolaus
One problem I see with the suggestion is that the "others" are not likely to be totally honest with their concerns in a forum that the kilt-wearer is likely to be following as well, especially if it is a "significant other." Also, delicate or emotionally volitile subjects are liable to turn into huge domestic blow-ups when the poster starts feeling ganged up on by the kilt-wearers who will inevitably join in on the thread.
Iolaus, I have to agree whole heartedly. I have thought about directing my wife to this forum, but I have concerns. They may not be valid, but I worry somewhat about her reading posts I will make in the future, and also about posts I have already made that she might read. I am not sure why, because I don't think I said anything that I would not say to her in person, nor in a way that is inconsistent with who I am. Maybe it is just the fact that our SO would be reading our posts that would inhibit some of us.