Divorce in my future?

[Graham]

I think it's worth a heroic effort to try to save your marriage. Beg her to go to counselling with you. If one counsellor doesn't work out, try another. If you don't have a minister, finding one could benefit you both.

You can't change another person. You can only control your own actions. She may not agree to counselling, but you'll at least know that you gave it an honest effort.

All the best to you,
Sherry

I agree with this advice of Sherry's. I hope that both of you will see that marriage and it's vows are sacred and need to be maintained at all costs.

If the computer is really the problem, get rid of it. Show her that your interest is HER, and not porn, take her on a holiday, whatever it takes.

I hope things work out for you.

[Jimmy Carbomb]

Folks' advise seems to be pretty well in line here. Good group of guys.

From one who's re-married and VERY happily going on in a new life...

...whatever you decide to do and wherever the road takes you, be confident in your decisions and KNOW that nothing happens without a reason. You may not see why it's happening and what brought it to this point... but it's there. You may not see what's on the horizon... but it's already there too.

All the pain in the world can't scratch the surface of all the wonderful things that are going to happen.